When Teenage Love Becomes Ownership
Teenage relationships can be intense, emotional and sometimes chaotic. That does not mean every harmful pattern should be dismissed as immaturity or teenage drama.
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Teenage relationships can be intense, emotional and sometimes chaotic. That does not mean every harmful pattern should be dismissed as immaturity or teenage drama.
When a teenager or very young adult appears in court accused of supplying drugs, we tend to meet them at the end of the story. Nineteen years old. Drugs. Supply. Court.
It may say the older person is “of sound mind”. It may accuse one child of interfering, upsetting the family or causing trouble.
Every time a tragedy happens, we ask the same question. What assumptions did we make along the way?.
We spend years preparing young people for exams. We spend very little time preparing them for work.
When people hear the phrase predatory marriage, they often picture an elderly widow being persuaded to marry a much younger person shortly before her death.
The Facade of the Perfect Parent
But one of the most overlooked safeguarding issues today is adolescent domestic abuse.
When people think of human trafficking, they often picture one trafficker and one victim.
Parental alienation is often talked about as something that happens after parents separate. A messy breakup. A high-conflict dispute. A child “choosing sides”.
I want to talk about a friend who died in 2008, aged just 47. She was bright, funny, clever, a nurse, a devoted mum.